THE THEORY OF LOVE ENERGY

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Before going into the theory of love energy let’s understand what love energy is.

ENERGY IS EVERYTHING AND EVERYTHING IS ENERGY. I believe love is the highest form of energy. Love is usually defined as an emotion of a strong affection towards someone, but love can also be seen as a form of energy. We already know that all matter is energy in movement. Even the most solid objects are built from energy. We are surrounded by energy. We ourselves are energy. The source of this energy is love.

Humans are always surrounded by energy, mainly of 5 types, they are Physical, Etheric, Emotional, Mental and Spiritual which sum up to form an aura of a person but there is one more energy that is more powerful and that no one talks about which is “love energy”. Just like any energy love is also created, transferred and received, I feel it is what defines your happiness level and other emotions. There are 4 main types of love energy A) one that you get from your mother, father or your close family B) one that you get from your close friends C) one that you get from your partner or your lover. D)and one that you create on your own or also known as self-love. Let’s understand how lover energy is created and transferred.

A) Love energy you receive from your parents and close family:

When you are in your childhood you naturally are very close to your parents and there is a transfer of love energy between you and your parents. For example, when you were sick, your mother used to take care of you, feed you healthy food, just purely out of love and no other intention.She is putting all of her time, efforts into you which costs a lot of energy. Looking at you recover and seeing you happy, she gets happy as love energy is transferred from her to you and back to her so here there is a transfer of love energy.

B) Love energy you receive from your friends:

When you grow a little older say, 15-16, you start getting more close to your friends. You start spending more time with your best friend or your group of friends, you start hanging out with them and you enjoy spending time with them. Here also there is a transfer of love energy from you to your friends and back to you. If you don’t see or meet your friends for a long time that transfer is broken, so you don’t have that level of energy, but as soon as you meet them, that energy gets recharged and your happiness level also increases

C) Love energy you receive from your partner:

As you grow older, say 18- 19, you need a much closer and deeper relationship with someone that you are attracted to and you start searching for a constant in life. For example, when the person you like enters the room, just their presence makes you feel happy, anxious, nervous, etc because you’re getting a lot of energy from them and once you start thinking about that person you subconsciously start spending a lot of energy. You start investing a lot of energy in that person. Let’s take another example, you gather all your courage and go up to your crush and tell him/her I LOVE YOU, you get nervous, your heart starts beating faster and your just impatiently waiting for their answer. If they say they love you back, how do you feel? Happy, on top of the world, you get a feeling of relief, etc as you had put all of your ’emotions’, ‘time ‘, ‘feelings’ in that 3-word sentence in the form of love energy that was created in your body which you transferred to them, and when they reciprocated, that energy was transferred back to you. If that person didn’t feel the same and replied with a negative response to your statement, how would you feel? Heartbroken and sad because you created so much energy in the form of thoughts, emotions, the fear inside you before asking that person and, when you transferred that to him or her but did not receive the same energy in return. You are drained of energy in your body as you gave away all your energy and now are empty, this emptiness creates a void in you. Lack of love opens doors to negative emotions like anxiety, fear, hate, depression, etc. This is one of the reasons why most relationships end up in heartbreaks.This is the main part of the “theory of love energy”

What happens is most of the time, in a relationship the heart is in the same place but the minds are on a different level; they both must be liking each other but have different expectations from the other person. In some cases once you start giving more Love energy than the other person expected, they will start taking you or the ‘efforts you’ve taken’ for granted and they try to maintain a little more distance from you. You seeing the distance try to fill this gap by putting in more love energy, and finally when the other person is filled with an abundance of your love energy (anything that you have in excess you will care less about ) they won’t need your presence or your energy anymore in their life and start going away from you!

When a break up happens, there is one person who is more attached to the other, let’s say the boy is more attached to the girl and their source of love energy (happiness) is dependent on that person. When that person was in a relationship and there was a transfer of love energy he was happy and as he became happier he craved for more love energy from that person to the point that all of his love energy was dependent on that person. Once they break up that flow of energy is cut out, but still, there was only one-way transfer of love energy because the boy still cared and had love for her, so the energy is still being transferred from the boy but he is not receiving any back, to the point that he gives out all of his energy and now is depleted on love energy and completely drained out, he has to now look out for external sources of love energy to be happy again.

On the other hand the girl was not dependent on love energy from him as she is content with her energy and doesn’t need his love energy anymore to be happy and is easy for her to move on. Here she doesn’t require any external source of energy to be happy.

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All of these 3 types of energies vibrate at different frequencies and have a different impact on you. I believe that the third type of love energy (c) has the highest impact on one’s soul. Energy vibrates at different frequencies. Love forces vibrate at the highest frequency. Love has been seen as the greatest energy of life or the unified field of consciousness.

There are 2 types of vibrations:

1) Abundance vibrations.

The energy of abundance is the energy of optimism, joy, passion, love and happiness. Love is the most powerful energy which comes under abundance vibrations and has the highest vibration frequency.

2) Scarcity vibrations

When you have scarcity vibrations you are fearful of things not happening. Fear on the vibration frequency chart has the lowest vibration frequency

There is another type of love energy that is created within you, by you and that is love energy through self-love!

D) Self-love:

Self-love as the name suggests just loving yourself no matter how you look or what status you have in the world.

There are many ways to generate self-love, that is by doing lots of meditation, yoga and by simply just taking care of yourself and how you feel about yourself.

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Let’s take another simple example to understand the power of love energy. I live far away from my grandparents and couldn’t see them often due to work and the distance. It had been a long time since I visited them and one fine day I decided to give them a surprise and go meet them.

On meeting my grandpa I could see a big smile on his face with his mouth wide open and almost tears rolling down his cheeks, I had never seen him this happy in a long time, there was a different shine on his face, I could sense that. I bet you no riches in the world can bring that level of happiness and joy but only love can. Standing there looking at him smiling in pure happiness made my heart melt and even I was almost about to cry.

Here again love energy was transferred from me to him and back towards me. This forms a strong connection of love.

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So this theory just helps us understand human emotions and how love is transferred from one being to another. Further this theory also helps us understand how abundance and scarcity of love energy leads us to happiness, joy, anger, frustration, depression, etc. Once you are aware of this energy you can use this to improve your relationship with yourself, your co-worker, family, friends, partner, etc. Further this theory can help us make better decisions in life, as the power of a decision taken by your mind is 10 times powerful but a decision taken by your heart is 1000 times more powerful than that of your mind. Taking decisions by your mind may give you quick success in your business or relationships but it is only for the short term whereas decisions taken by heart may be difficult to take sometimes but it will lead you to long term success.